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1:	=== .:. slovo o kako podobaetъ člveku i vsakomu pravoslavnomu xrtianinu	[Title] Homily on how it is appropriate for a man and every Orthodox Christian,
	egda priidetъ denъ i časъ da počne da traži sebe ženu	[Title] when the day and the time comes to begin to search for a wife
2:	oče blglovi pročasti się slovesa pred nar	[Title] O Father, bless the (one) reading these words before the people
3:	Ašte ♣ po zakona koi ljubitъ xrtianъsku veru i po običai da potraži za sebe ženu	He who loves Christian faith and wants to search for a wife, as it is a custom,
	dlъženъ e da pročete u zakona da vidi kakvo pišet sti aplъ pavelъ	he should read in the Law, what is written by St. Paul the Apostle,
	i da se nauči kakvo da tvori	and to learn, what to do
4:	zašto kogi se naide žena i xoštešъ uzeti	Because when a woman is found and you want to take her,
	i ako bude ot baštu i ot maiku ne naučena i ne ispedeѱana	and if she will not be raised and taught properly by her father and her mother,
	i ako bude bezъočliva i bezъsramna i ustata i slastoljubica i pijanica	or if she will be unrespectful, and speaking too much, and lustful, and a drunkard,
	kakvo možešъ da ju pretrъpišъ	how would you be able to suffer her?
5:	i ako bude bezъbožnica i magesnica ili veštica i prismexlukja	And if she will be an unbeliever, and a sorceress, and a diviner, and sarcastic,
	i za tova si dlъženъ da ju pretrъpišъ	even then you have to suffer her
6:	zašto da si imalъ četiri oči	Because of that you should have had four eyes:
7:	dobre da gledašъ ot kakvъ rodъ žena za sebe uzimašъ	Watch well, from what kind of family you take the wife
8:	zašto žena mlogo misli na sveki časъ kakvo e nai zlo	Because a woman thinks every time about what is the worst
9:	takoi da napravi	So that she does thus
10:	takoi učitъ vragъ ženu da čini zlo	Thus the Enemy teaches a woman, to do evil
11:	ako li bude kurъva nikak da ju ne trъpišъ	If she would be an adulterer, you are not going to suffer her
12:	nъ da ju prostišъ da ne pogubišъ glavu tvoju sasъ nju	But leave her, so that you will not lose your head about her
13:	nъ prosti ju	But leave her
14:	i maxni ju ot sebe	And cast her away from you
15:	i zemi si druga	And take another
16:	zašto ako vodišъ takuvu ženu mlogo trudъ i grexъ privodišъ na sebe	Because if you marry such a woman, you bring a lot of troubles and sin on yourself
17:	zatova ti i ja rekoxъ	That is why I said to you:
18:	kogi xočet nekoi da se ženi trebe da ima četiri oči	If one wants to marry, he should have four eyes,
	da izbere sebe ženu da bude ot baštu naučena na svekakvo dobro	to choose a woman taught by her father to all the good,
	i ot maiku ispedeѱana i nakazana da e krotъka i smirena i pokorliva	and raised and disciplined by her mother to be humble, and peaceful, and meek,
	i sramna i mudra i bgubojazna	and shy, and wise, and fearing God
19:	takovo čedo izberi	Choose such a child
20:	i oženi se	And marry
21:	i bgъ xošte ti pomognuti da stečešъ xižu i domъ sasъ takovu dobroumnu nevestu	And God will help you to create a house and home with a well-minded bride
22:	takoi učitъ nasъ stoe pravilo xrtovo	Thus we are taught by the holy Law of Christ
23:	i samъ pomisli	Think yourself:
24:	kogi kupišъ nekoja kъšta ili lozie ili robъ ili konъ	When you buy a house, or a vineyard, or a servant, or a horse,
	ako ti ne su ugodni lesno možeš da gi vrъnešъ	if you will not like them, you can easily return them
25:	a žena ako ti ne bude ugodna ne možešъ da ju vrъnešъ	But if a wife will not be to your liking, you cannot return her
26:	zatova pisuva u pravilo da imašъ četiri oči da gledašъ kakva žena uzimašъ	That is why the Law writes to have four eyes when looking, what woman are you taking
27:	zašto ako bude siromaška i zla po skoro možešъ da se izbavišъ ot neja	For if she will be poor and bad, more likely you can get her away
28:	ako li bude bogata mlogo zlo i beda xočešъ da poteglišъ	But if she would be rich, you would (?) suffer much evil
29:	i ne možeš skoro da se izbavišъ ot neja	And you cannot easily get away from here
30:	zašto kogi naide nekoi člvekъ nekoju ženu kurъvu ona	For when a man finds an adulterous woman,
	ne uvodi toko sama sebe u muku večnuju	she does not bring only herself to the eternal torment,
	nъ i drugi mlogo člveci koito prixodutъ pri nju	but also many other people, who come to her
31:	takoi učitъ gi vragъ	Thus they are taught by the Enemy
32:	i sasъ magii uzimaju svoi ljubovnici	And they take their lovers by magic
33:	i drugi konъčno na samrъtъ predadoxu	And they finally give them over to death
34:	takviva ženi ne smisleni i magesnici mužъ kogi vidi sebe če e daleko ot pomoštъ bžiju	When a man sees such mindless women and sorceresses, then he is far from the help of God
35:	i uzmetъ go kurva žena na sebe i na svoju volju	And the adulterous woman takes him on herself and to her will
36:	i prizove diavola na pomoštъ	And she calls the Devil for help
37:	i predadet togova člveka djavolu u ruke	And she gives that man to the Devil's hands
38:	posle stane za poruganie na svi člveci i za ukorъ	And then she remains for ashamed in front of all people and for reproach
39:	ako sakašъ da spišъ dšu svoju	If you wish to save your soul,
	ne idi kude ima besovъski pesni i igri djavolъski	do not go there, where there are devilish songs and dances,
	i kade se govorut kurъvarski dumi	and where adulterous words are being said
40:	zašto upadašъ u jamu dlъboku	Because you fall into a deep pit
41:	no naidi člveci krotъki i smireni koito se bojutъ bgu	But find humble and peaceful people, who fear God
42:	sasъ takviva človeci xorotui čto	Communicate with this kind of people often
43:	i sasъ takviva se sabirai da čuešъ ot nixъ blagi reči	And meet with such people, to you hear from them good words,
	i ti da se naučišъ da se boišъ bgu	so that you also learn how to fear God
44:	i angelъ tvoi xranitelъ nikogda da se ne otlučva ot tebe	And may your guardian angel never falls apart from you
45:	i kogi vidišъ dobroličnu ženu	And when you see a beautiful woman,
	i priide ti zlъ pomislъ za nju	and a bad thought about her comes to your mind,
	a ti pomisli kakvo esi zemlja i praxъ i pepelъ	then think about how you are of soil, dust and ashes
46:	i turi ruku svoju na ognъ ako možešъ trъpeti ognъ	And put your hand to fire, if you can suffer fire
47:	tàko i za ženu čuždu pomisli	Thus it is also to think of a strange woman
48:	i da vidišъ nekoju bolъnu ženu leži i usmrъdela se	And may you imagine an ill woman, laying and stinking
49:	kakvo xočešъ pomisliti	What would you think?
50:	ili ako vidišъ nekoju ženu staru	Or if you see an old woman,
	oslepela i stanula grozna i gnusna	who became blind, and ugly, and disgusting,
	pomisli	think!
51:	i reči	And say:
52:	taja baba kogi e bila mlada kakva e bila xubava	That old woman, when she was young, how beautiful she was
53:	a sъga ju oči oslepeli	But now, her eyes (became) blind
54:	uši oglušeli	(Her) ears (are) deaf
55:	zubi ispadnuli	(Her) teeth fell out
56:	lice pogroznelo	(Her) face became ugly
57:	izъ oči te ju gurele tečutъ	Tears fall out of her eyes
58:	straxъ te e i gnus te e da ju poglednešъ	You are afraid and disgusted from looking at her
59:	i kogi ti prineset vragъ xubavu ženu na pametъ	And when the Enemy brings you a beatiful woman to your mind,
	a ti skoro prinesi staroju i gnusnu babu	may you bring soon an old, disgusting wench
60:	i preminue ti što si pomislilъ	And what you thought of, will pass
61:	i mlogo devici xubavi umiratъ	And many pretty girls die
62:	i po tri dni idi	And then go after three days
63:	i višъ u grobъ kakva xubosъ ima	And see in the grave, what beauty there is
64:	i ne možešъ da stoišъ ot onaja smrъdela mrъša	And you cannot stand from that stinking corpse
65:	vidite li člveci bžii kakvo se nie gnusimo ot člvečesko mrъtvo telo	Do you see, people of God, how we get disgusted from a dead human body?
66:	takoi se gnusi i bgъ na tija člveci koito želajut ženъsko telo xubavo	Thus also God is disgusted from those people, who wish a beautiful body of a woman
67:	tako i samъ xrtosъ reče	Thus also the Christ Himself said:
68:	koi vidi dobroličnu ženu i otide mu pametъ po nu	He who sees a beautiful woman and thinks about her,
	kato če se e isxodilъ sasъ nju	he is like if he went together with her (to adultery)
69:	takoi da veruete kogi vidišъ nekoe lice nekogi	Thus you should believe, when you see a (beautiful) face,
	a ti ustrelenъ buduešъ ot vraga	and when you are (as) shot by the Enemy
70:	a po dobro bi bilo da ne vidišъ takvovo lice	And it would be better that you would not see that face
71:	zašto mlogo ženi imatъ xubavo lice	Because many women have a beautiful face
72:	a unutre u srdce to imat nekoja bolestъ	But inside the heart they have some malady
73:	i počnešъ da se gnusiš ot neja	And you would start to be disgusted from her (because of it)
74:	i da može člvekъ da vidi ženu da ima na sebe krasta ili šuga ne bi gledalъ u neja	And if a man would see a woman having scabies on herself, he would not look on her
75:	nъ bi begalъ daleko ot neja i ti	But you would run away too from her,
	da ne prefanešъ zla krasta i šuga ot neja	so that you will not get bad scabies from her